MY RULES

1. A sub must be honest from the moment he begins communicating with Goddess.  Never lie about relationships, experience level or anything else. 

2. A sub will seek to understand want he wants and needs and to know the difference between the two.

3. A sub needs to realize some fantasies will never be more than just that. And that some of his fetishes may not strike a responsive chord within Goddess.

4. A sub has a duty to act as an intelligent human being.

5. A sub repays Goddess’ attention with respect, humility and obedience. This is inherent in the nature of the D/s relationship.

6. A sub always communicates his feelings as clearly as possible.

7. If the sub feels that his needs aren’t being met he will confess that respectfully without seeming to make demands.

8. A sub will watch to see if Goddess is tired or not feeling well and focus on her comfort, not on having a session.

9. A sub should never think of Goddess as a torture and humiliation machine. That is objectifying her.

10. A sub will remember that D/s is a relationship between people. He will strive to never forget that the Domme is a human being. That regardless of the power relationship thoughtless behavior on his part can inflict emotional hurt on the other person.

Civility, honesty and honor sum it up.